It's also quite scary how a lot of those people, like myself, who were born and bred in the UK, due to racism and mistreatment, clasp their hands in glee as the UK makes wrong decision after wrong decision. I live in Norfolk, so I cannot agree with the rain problem (we occasionally have drought issues here) but otherwise I think you have touched upon all the issue that I cannot come to terms with. Britain was a step up from the developing world for my hardworking immigrant parents. And she hates the Rain (by the way the weather in the UK is as she would know if she had paid attention unpredictable ,,that means it may rain for periods and then suddenly be sunny for long stretches too ) . The girls commonly wear clothing which exposes their midriff. Well, let's look closer. I'm already considering buying an apartment in Tenerife - a true paradise of sunshine (good climate, great food, low cost of living). Who knows. Brexit was and will continue to be a mistake. You made us see clearer and feel empowered on our next move. And frightening. I don't think the British people who don't like the EU are racists. This means that if you have a car, you can get pretty much anywhere around the UK. The government is doing nothing to keep this in check, and it has become "salonfhig" to be openly racist. Many of them, in fact. Seriously, who compared the UK with Romania? It makes me so sad to see where we have ended up. They still believe in the purity of Japanese blood and parents discourage mixed marriage. There's only one thing Brits love more than telling people how great their home towns are, and that's complaining about their home towns. It took me years of hard work before I could even begin my application as a British citizen. We've just moved to the UK and we're loving it so far, though we are probably still doe-eyed and innocent about it all. Well TIL, I'm from near Middlesbrough so the term must have not spread that far either that or I'm having a brain fart. And it was because of these bright minds that I chose to become British too. If so, hilarious coming from you. Better climates and more outdoor life. You insult our country and our people. Thank you so much for your heartfelt message. [1] "Chavette" is a related term referring to female chavs, and the adjectives "chavvy", "chavvish", and "chavtastic" are used to describe things associated with chavs, such as fashion, slang, etc. Lets forget the Europeans for a minute , delusional Brits think as an Indian I must find the UK to be a paradise but I absolutely HATE it. The people there are immensely proud of their long history and are well aware of what is going on in Europe. The best advice I can offer: follow your heart, because home is where your heart is truly happy surrounded by best friends and family you love. I've always lived here and there's lots to be grateful for but well, I find it just a little bit depressing. Hi Rachel, I hope your move will go well. The main reason is that I see the EU as being an impossible project, led by weak consensus politicians with no grand vision for economic growth. We have some of the best sports in the world, Wimbledon and the Premiership for example. I had been living in my liberal bubble my entire life and had surrounded my self with educated people who feel passionate about gender issues, race issues and really believe in the importance of creating a society which is fair for everyone, regardless of where they or their family are from. Dude, seriously, you're really shooting yourself in the foot here. I wish you all the best, MJ. I hope you find your reality somewhere and leave us racist, poor, thick bits to struggle on without you. High standards, high expectations, high quality living. Those who are racist can be found anywhere, even in your own country. People in general seem pretty chilled. Like many new and unexplored places, it needs to be protected from abuse (rise in properly prices, too much tourism and so forth). No, they make a very fair point. Of course, many people want to be English, that's why they come here. But this was short-lived because I arrived in the UK during a dark time for Romanians and Bulgarians who just joined the EU. I am not a young person but to find work in Canada is miserably difficult unless you live in a major City. Being British born myself I have seen how Britain has changed for the worst over the last decade or so and am now trying to convince my husband for us to move abroad somewhere where we can have hotter weather, more reasonable housing and public transport costs, a salary which accurately reflects the amount of work and education that goes into your job and an overall better lifestyle. This puts us into conflict with other countries that want to keep us in our place and some people find this a shock to the system compared to their home country. You've knackered the only horse in town. Lots of things cost the same in Canadian dollars here that they do in pounds in the UK! Take care! How is that fair? Excellent read! You do not need an address in the UK for yourself. Best of luck to you. I do believe it should have its own independence and continue to be part of the EU as its citizens want. 10) Blackburn. Public transport is expensive in the UK, but it is because our planning laws are tough and protect the delicate environment here and peoples wishes. I asked for proof to see what I spelt wrong and on how many occasions. There are too many issues which make the UK a depressing place to be. Lovely. The irony of this situation is that in your misguided attempt to Make England Great Again, you've torpedoed much of the foundation of the UK's current wealth. So I now have around eight more months and just one more English winter to endure then its mountain guiding and airbnb for me. Have fun singing in the rain on your island. This way you can still get letters, keep on banking etc It costs a few hundred pounds per year but well worth it. But it is true, that unfortunately, this is the sad reality today. The freedom, no constraints, no obligations and no stress. I have seen both. New Zealand is a close second best, but the earthquakes and parochialism relegate it for me Im afraid. The review reads: "Staines, the very name conjures up a vision of chav-ridden, rubbish . No one here believes me when I tell them! There are a lot of benefits to having so much rain in the UK. I still remember talking to my husband the previous night, saying that the world is not that stupid. Yes, Australia is far higher cost of living, but the living standards and quality of life is also much higher. Brits live in the illusion that its great here but in reality its a shithole. I was a covard and I even lied to myself for a good 3 years before that. Hi Morgan. Again, they were blind-sided by empty promises of a better NHS, "more jobs" and "less immigrants". Thank you, Karin. A very interesting and substantial read. But spending all your life covering up your origins because of racism at school means you are living a lie. Its beautiful countryside and theres good aspects to living here .. but the country sucks the life out of you eventually and you end up feeling grey and worn out just like the weather. Because they read too much of the Daily Mail and have come to believe that Mohammad who owns the corner shop and Sunita who works in the local Indian aren't law-abiding, hard-working citizens but terrorists, despite having lived here longer than some of us have been alive! We were both European expats who came here to study. Countries in Europe are becoming less and less accepting and open. Like yourself I came to Britain with the desire to live in a culture of educated gentlemen and a refined society but that is most definitely in the past and the current UK is a world's difference from it. Unfortunately there are a lot of uncultured and racist people in the UK, its so disappointing. History has shown us this. James, I'm sure you never heard of Carl Schmitt even though you're living in Germany who was a political philosopher. Is it because you're desperately trying to get away, and you can't? In London, a global city! But something, somewhere, went wrongthus, we decided to leave the UK. Anyone who would kick you out for "bad spelling" must be crazy. This results in you learning to cook a variety of world dishes. I can cook Cantonese, Japanese (my favourite), Thai, Indian, French, Italian, Spanish and what not! There are no real national parks, all the land is fenced off, houses are built to occupy the most possible space, 1/3 of the land is in the hands of the aristocracy and the other 2/3 mainly belongs to corporations. It was about all the things I don't understand about England. Too many people taking out, not enough putting in enough. I had the idea that the UK would be a paradise for me, and I would be able to continue my professional career over there, in London, to be specific. The Euro was a huge mistake. However, now I want to start my own business and freelance, and I definitely see the benefits of the UK in this regard. It was kind of sad, even more so when I look back in it. I say keep traveling and find places that you can afford to have a decent life and by that I don't mean buying 'stuff' settle for much less but a good lifestyle. But at least I can say that I chose the ticket that the racist people didn't choose! English culture is a thing, it has been for centuries, changing with time, adapting to new ways of life. Is there an article of apology that I have missed? I do feel that we have so much potential and we could learn so much from one another. Why dont you go and live there then? Apparently, I wrote, "Stacy" instead of "Stacey" on a reminder post-it which has nothing to do with official documentation, appointment book or customer-facing paperwork. Politics aside, I hope it gets better here, but I dont see it happening anytime soon. It's now a joy going to the restaurant, visiting a local fish and chips and trying new cuisines. I dont feel like Im at home here. I am bisexual and growing up in Romania vs UK are two different worlds - yes, Romanians were way more tolerant than British kids who physically abused and bullied me. I grew up in 'Middle England' Home Counties and have lived in the Midlands and Yorks so have a fair view of Britain, England (vs London) and consider myself (and family) thoroughly British (I open my mouth and you will agree too!). I really like your article. I've held 3 stable jobs since I was 16, and in each on I was the minority. I live in Argentina, and as an EU citizen, I'm planning on moving to the UK before March 29, Brexit tentative date, looking for new opportunities for me. What I always find hard to believe is how humans fail to learn from previous mistakes. About 12 years ago when I came to study in Manchester, Britain was a different place. I also hope you don't feel any issues as a result of Brexit. The weather is better but their governments are destroying both. Plus, all the great writers and scientists coming from here made me think the educational system would be wonderful. Since 2008, Britain has culturally been in a self-inflicted spiral decline of crisis. Because they expect Engineering to be taken care of bu foreign workforce! A Labour Government faces the same problems - and honestly will be no different as there is no money to splurge like the Noughties! We have something called tigaie picanta or spicy stir-fry and piperchi which is a spicy red pepper stew. Those racists that bully immigrants in the Uk should remember what many of their ancestors did around the world in the past, that is, exploit people, countries, resources, etc. I just could not understand why the land of my dreams was not working for me. Right after Norway and Switzerland. There are new ideas on the market all the time, and inventors are trying hard to come up with ideas on how to push the UK further. :). "Chav is an utterly misunderstood term. Oooh believe me! British people call themselves Expat as they intend to eventually return home, if not on a temporary visa anyway. That would be denigrating for a Brit, wouldn't it, to be an immigrant? 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