Rob told Steve Cannane that the exclusive brethren talking about the greens destroying the social fabric was the ultimate in hypocrisy. "Most girls were there to check out the guys rather than listen to the word of God. I knew I was breaking her heart, but had no choice. Exclusive Brethren an evil, corrupt cult, court told Kevin Rudd allows secret talks with 'cult' Brethren's Qld schools gain $3m Inside the Brethren lobby horse Member of sect stalked women Exclusive access for anti-gay cult Exclusive Brethren school given $1m state grants Brethren schools net $18m funding No university for Exclusive Brethren kids This was followed up by a visit by Darby himself later in 1875. His lawyers had left no stone unturned in scouring the earth for experts in the fields of neuroscience, car crashes and pathology to test the Crown's case that he had driven drunk, and carelessly, before crashing into a tree. On Sundays church attendance ramped up to four different services, with the earliest at 6am. I had hoped he might wave his hand and declare I was cured. The following few months were the worst of my life. It was the first time I'd seen two men so openly showing public affection. "It's beentraumatising but from my perspective and my family'swe've been very free in a Christian spirit to forgive Russell. Faced with being separated once more, we broke down and cried on each other's shoulders, and I realised how much I still loved my brother. "Even housewives had to fill out diaries accounting for what they had done every hour and spent," McLean said. I'd long since accepted I'd never see my family again, so when another of my brothers left the Brethren a few years ago it was a shock to have a sibling back in my life. The board of the Arise Church is promising changes as its founding members resign amid abuse allegations. A grandparent dies of cancer and suddenly you have to call your family, trying to find out where they are so you can say goodbye. The Exclusive Brethren is the name given (by outsiders) to those among the so-called Plymouth Brethren who, in the mid-nineteenth century, joined John Nelson Darby ( 1800-82) in forming a Christian fellowship which they believed to be based on strict biblical principles. The leader of the church has absolute power to appoint the priests, resolve breaches of the rules, approve marriages and decide on punishments. (I was lucky to have the first eight years of my education in the public system, which gave me limited exposure to non-Brethren kids, but these days sect children are educated entirely within the Brethren system.) A flowchart illustrates how the Exclusive Brethren - or Plymouth Brethren Christian Church - money-go-round works. Says one, his smile like a plea: "We don't want to get into a media conflict. Our social lives were bound up with other sect members and, by the time I reached my teens, my peers and I were well and truly enmeshed. At least one member of the House of Commons has been mislead. Numerous questions are explored, such as What exactly was their interest in politics? Even their churches are typically windowless. After some initial hesitation, I agreed. However, many leading New Zealand companies are lining up to join the list of preferred suppliers to what former members describe as a captive market. These sessions often involved alcohol. The term exclusive was applied because these brethren maintained that it was essential for those who believed in the Truth to separate from all others, and to admit to their breaking of bread only those who agreed in all doctrinal matters, and who subjected themselves to the same social and moral discipline. reach out to my brethren who have been damaged, disillusioned or discarded by the legal system which first emerged in 1959, and continues to dominate many to this day, to recall them to their spiritual birthright the rich heritage of former years; to encourage them to take possession of it . He is Australian Bruce Hales. Members marry each other, rarely divorce, and are encouraged to have large families. I don't know, we have enough friends of our own." Perhaps the best-known Obviously I wasn't a good Brethren girl, but back then I'd never have dreamt of leaving." Like most ex-Brethren - they call themselves ex-peebs (short for people of the Exclusive Brethren) - the hardest thing has been losing family from their lives. 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Families do not have televisions, radios or computers, or go to the cinema or theatre. We're an easy target. Theologically, it is a cult of Christianity. "When you pull out one of those Jenga blocks it can make the whole pile quite unstable. By the time I was born, in the late autumn of 1989, the Exclusive Brethren had morphed into an oppressive sect that tightly managed every aspect of its members' lives. In early days, the group was less restrictive; the founders simply shunned the trappings of modern religion and committed themselves to a life following biblical teachings. I stared in fascination. Divorce is rare. However within 25 years of the Plymouth Brethren forming, one of the founders a certain John Nelson Darby asserted his dominance, breaking away and forming a separatist sect referred to by others as the Exclusive or Closed Brethren. A shell company of that name has already been set up here, reportedly to help the church hire its own without relying on "worldly people" Such clandestine adventures frequently led to feelings of guilt and shame, and I regularly confessed my so-called sins to the Brethren "priests" as a teenager. *Their names have been changed to protect their identities. NAF then dishes out grants to PBCC trusts, which are not registered charities and therefore not subject to any scrutiny. Charlotte wrote a letter of recommendation for AUT's Bachelor of Communications degree, and I started working at TV3 as a first-year student. They are not allowed to form friendships with people outside the church, who are known as 'worldlies'. I had a whole drawer of Richard Allan and Liberty Silk scarves." Attitudes since have become much more diverse, however. An estimated 5000 of those are Exclusive, with 40,000 worldwide. Growing up in the Exclusive Brethren meant missing out on a lot of things other children took for granted. The first beginnings of the Brethren movement occurred in the 1820s, when Darby, then an Anglican clergyman in the Church of Ireland, began meeting with others who shared his serious doubts about the validity of Anglican orders and, indeed, about the biblical warrant for any sort of clerical class. It also produces The Silver Bulletin. The principle of separating from evil became for him and his associates the essential basis for Christian unity and common fellowship. "That's news to me. One of your four brothers gets married, but of course you're not invited to the wedding. Three people died and six others were injured in the crash. 'The expectation was that you would buy a house, marry a Brethren girl, settle down and raise a Brethren family, and the cycle would rinse and repeat.'. In. The Exclusive Brethren member was among a delegation sent to the United States in the 1980s to meet that farmer, James Symington, who despite losing his sight and both legs to diabetes, held onto his position as global leader of the Brethren until his death. "There were real pissheads in there: they drink heaps, it's the only thing you're allowed to do." "They tend to spend their lives trying to get around rules while trying to keep their noses clean." Imagine a life without television, music or freedom; imagine every minute of your spare time being spent attending church; imagine growing up believing swimming pools, cinemas and dancing were evil. They ban technology. Sarah and her producer, Charlotte, took a keen interest in my circumstances as we travelled and filmed together, and asked what I wanted to do with my life. All members must follow the rigid code of behaviour and rules that govern the contact. [32], GC3 is an umbrella organisation encompassing three institutions: Global Connections in Mission (GCiM), which supports 150 missionaries abroad as well as almost 100 evangelists in New Zealand,[3] GC Assist, an "operations trust" within GC3 which runs, among other projects, Headspace, a one-year program for school leavers,[33] and GC Aid, a humanitarian NGO.[34]. Video first published in 2015. [20] Assemblies affirming a cessationist position include The Orchard in Te Puke,[21] Bethany Bible Chapel in Auckland,[22] and Onekawa Bible Church in Napier.[23]. Last week. When Russell Stewart was in the dock admitting to causing the death of his wife, daughter and a family friend,members of the Exclusive Brethren church packed the public gallery. The Exclusive Brethren are now divided into a number of groups, most of which differ on minor points of doctrine or practice. Most work in Exclusive Brethren businesses, so leaving means losing their job. Most members are so isolated within the sect that they cant even imagine a life on the outside. In reality, this extremist movement is a cult or sect of the Plymouth Brethren. Says Diana: "To this day my parents are heartbroken, because they can't have anything to do with us. One of them lifted his bare feet onto the lap of the other and leaned back in his chair. [31] Its current principal is Dr Francine Bennett. Once David Tchappat had a taste of the real world as a teenager, there was no going back despite the fact he knew he would be cruelly ostracised from his family, friends and the only life he had known. Source: The Exclusive Brethren, BBC. She explained how chalk could be dusted away. When his son, John Field Deck returned to England in 1859 to study Medicine, however, and gravitated towards the Open Brethren,[7] Exclusive leaders, including Darby, became concerned. My parents threw me out of their house, waiting until I was away one weekend before dumping my belongings in a storage unit and telling me I could collect the key. On one occasion a senior leader asked if I was sexually attracted to a local priest. It was a bright spring day when I got one final phone call from a priest. I held my grandma close dear, sweet Grandma, who always kept a stiff upper lip, but not today and we wept in each other's arms for half an hour. 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Those who break the rules can be punished by being banned from worship meetings and ostracised by members of their own family and other Exclusives who withdraw from such a person. Sorrow overthe past and humility in the present may be the keystones to those many groups to visit one anothers meetings and to see how little stands between them and to share meetings in the spirit of oneness not implied superiority. Families were ripped down the middle. This is based on the Biblical procedure for the treatment of lepers, and involves being isolated from family and friends and only allowed to see specially chosen church members until local church leaders believe that God has forgiven the person. "We had to go to business meetings, paid thousands of dollars to go to business meetings all round New Zealand. It was a surreal transition. The church is strictly controlled by a central authority. We're just simple Christians, normal people, we look after our own and go about our business, don't hurt anyone." * Business types include farm machinery, agriculture, horticulture, orchards, vineyards, office furniture and trades A fascinating tale of power exercised across several continents, this is also a moving story of damaged lives, broken families, and anger that stretches back decades. Brethren were long noted for teaching cessationism the idea that the so-called sign gifts (such as miracles, divine healing, and speaking in tongues) were given only to the early church to authenticate the apostles, and "ceased" with the death of the last apostle. Watch this clip from the 2005 documentary Leaving the Exclusive Brethren, which includes rare interviews with young members of the church. It was a decision that changed my life. Two months ago that name did not exist. A measure of their influence - and the working tolerance they've won - is the wariness locals show about saying anything bad of them. Yesterday RNZ revealed the unusual structure of this charity, which is wholly controlled by the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church but with no formal constitutional link to it. Most of the jokes went over my head. The Exclusive founder, John Nelson Darby, believed the secular world was corrupt and the way for believers to obey God was to keep to themselves. I've kept in touch so the kids know them. Families do not have televisions, radios or computers, or go to the cinema or theatre. "It's like the inside of a golf ball in there, everything is all tied together, with a very centralised structure and power dynamic.". It meant no TV, radio or recorded music, no pets, parties, school outings, plays or. However, staying out of UBT made it easier for him to eventually leave the church, he agreed. "So let's say their profit was $200,000 and they decided to donate $50,000. It remains the most painful experience of his life. He's had his own serious, serious loss. A rural service town of 4500, the country's kumara capital has a Four Square, RSA, stores with names like Molly's Fashions and Lynley's Lingerie & Linen, a surf shop and one panini-serving cafe for the cool crowd. Craddock told me he was experimenting with helping others change their sexuality, as yet unsuccessfully, and in the meantime at least my sex drive could be significantly reduced. But Exclusive Brethren are a cult. So that's a very, very unsatisfactory situation for Bruce Hales.". Darby held that true Christians should separate not only from the churches, which were corrupt, but also from those who were impure in faith or morals. Life in the Brethren could be happy enough if you stuck to the rules. See also the articles in our news tracker. [29] Of all Brethren institutions, Pastorlink is one of the newest: it is only in the last twenty to thirty years that the practice of having pastors has become common in Brethren assemblies in New Zealand. He claims that the Exclusive Brethren destroys people and families, have no respect for women and absolute contempt for anyone not in their religious group, and do all this while enjoying the benefit of charitable status from our government. Many of UBT's vendors are leading global brands which provide a wide range of products and services, from travel, corporate fuel cards to insurances. Known as fair, honest employers and reliable, skilful tradesmen. There was no television, no radio, no access to modern technology, and we went to church every day. The Brethren movement began in Dublin in the 1820s, and split into the Open and Exclusive Brethren in the 1840s. Now 53, he's in his second marriage and runs a cartage business in his hometown, Christchurch. It wasn't long after that I heard the song Burning Bridges on the radio: All the burning bridges that have fallen after me, All the lonely feelings and the burning memories, Everyone I left behind each time I closed the door. This is far from the Open Brethren idea that individual churches should have a great deal of freedom in their dealings with others. He also allowed the New Zealand assemblies a degree of congregational autonomy that was unknown among the Exclusives in the British Isles. (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); The Exclusive Brethren movement is an extremist branch or sect of the Plymouth Brethren. He's organising a reunion for "ex-peebs" next Easter, and is expecting 150. I went undercover for 60 Minutes to help expose an international fraudster wanted by the FBI, gaining his trust while wired with a hidden camera. The Exclusive Brethren churches have a rigid code of behavior and rules governing anything from contact with outsiders to the length of ones hair or the approved colors of the scarves worn by female members. The ex-churchmember said members of the Exclusive Brethren, also known as the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church, who found themselves in jail needed support more than ever. The expectation was that you would buy a house, marry a Brethren girl, settle down and raise a Brethren family, and the cycle would rinse and repeat. These early Brethren were men of education and social positiontwelve of the earliest Brethren were, or were training to be, Anglican clergymen (in England and Ireland); five were ministers in Nonconformist churches; a number had private means, including five with titles, and another eight were, or had been, commissioned officers. Here is what we wrote about the former site, which can still be viewed at the Internet Archive. The Brethren in New Zealand have diversified greatly in the last generation. They say people stay in fellowship because of ignorance, fear, family and finances. "I got on very well with my father, and I was never there in the years you want to be there, when they get old and you want to do their lawns." They cannot form friendships, or eat with people outside the church -- who are known as "worldlies". Source: Secretive sect softens ban on outside contact, The Guardian, March 15, 2003. They are using church connections to run their business and control people.". The international community is run by the "Man of God", who has absolute power to dictate the church's rules. The Exclusive Brethren is not a democratic movement, nor do individual congregations have any autonomy. According to the companies register, the seven directors and shareholders of the Fund's corporate trustee are current directors or shareholders of 79 other companies. We don't look down on other Christians because they don't live like us. * Firms clustered in around 40 towns and cities, mostly provincial centres and How did a group whose values are detached from those of most Australians infiltrate the highest office in the land? that we might humble ourselves before the Lord for our part active or passive in the shameful happenings and sorrow-ful scatterings which have taken place in our times. Over the past two years, Thompson and Clark has conducted hundreds of hours of surveillance on former members who have criticised the cult-like church. Theyneedpeople around. The truth always does." Church spokesperson Doug Watt said the decision to purchase or work with UBT or the Vision Foundation was "entirely an individual business decision that occurs in a competitive marketplace". Adrian is cynical about the Brethren culture. and others who were in practical fellowship with them for the years c. 1827 to 1959. Source: The Exclusive Brethren, BBC. Brethren have built 36 Campus & Co supermarkets in New Zealand for their members' exclusive use, staffed partly by "volunteers". Simmons has not gone quietly and is paying the price. Photo: RNZ. The most serious charges were dropped. He appoints local priests, resolves disputes, approves all marriages and decides on levels of punishment for breaches of discipline. The local rainbow support group occasionally published contact details in the classified section of the newspaper, and for months I scanned The Southland Times waiting for the next listing. The event, named "Game Plan 2016" was held at Auckland's Vector Arena and cost $2415 to attend both days Hansen and Apiata spoke. I was a seventh-generation member of the Plymouth/Exclusive Brethren. Former members of the Exclusive Brethren allege the secretive sect is breaking up families, putting members in isolation and attacking their livelihoods in order to maintain control. "A lot of guys, they've got a perception out here it's just one big orgy. It was a catastrophic reordering of life, and other experiences don't come close. [4], It is not a denomination in the organizational sense, but a loose network of like-minded autonomous local churches, or "assemblies", as Brethren churches are generally known. It was too much to bear, and a few days later I packed a bag and ran away. The couple maintain a faith in God but don't go to any church. Note that in 2003 the rules on contact with outsiders were slightly relaxed. [6] Although he was associated with the Exclusive Brethren of John Nelson Darby, he decided that the schism that had taken place in 1848 was irrelevant to New Zealand. At one church service it was said the spirit of God departed from us if we ever crossed the threshold of a cinema the next time I was at the movies I stepped backwards and forwards through the doorway to see whether it felt any different (it didn't). Once someone leaves the Brethren, they are forbidden from having contact with anyone still in the church, including their relatives. New rules came thick and fast from the 1960s, when the world leader of the time James Taylor Jnr, an alcoholic businessman from Brooklyn, New York enforced the principle of "separation". This examination delves deeper into the groups past, revealing the Brethrens 19th-century origins in the United Kingdom, their fractious history, their extraordinary use of scripture to control members and dissidents, and their lucrative business and financial arrangements. "We made it our own fun." []. The schools teach around 1000 year 7-12 students, and get glowing ERO reports. It was an ill-advised attempt at escape. [], Many Exclusive Brethren work in Brethren owned companies in order to reduce contact with outsiders. Brethren run at least 12 firms in Dargaville - mostly in trade and farm supplies - many clustered in an industrial complex on the town's southern edge. Like many other movements that came to be regarded as sectarian, the Brethren began with a profound and deeply anti-sectarian sentiment, and they still reject the designation sect. If they leave the church, they lose their livelihoods - many former Brethren claim they were forced to sign over their own companies to relatives. Members of Exclusive Brethren churches are expected to be totally loyal to the leader of the Exclusive Brethren. This, however, wasn't about what I'd done it was about who I was. This is quite different from mainstream Christian belief, which says that Jesus was always fully God and fully man. Exclusive Brethren meeting halls exclude the world to the extent of having no windows. Then they can claim that as a deduction in their accounts and reduce their tax liability at the end of the day. Promising to provide an Open documentary of their life and faith, this site claims to be the only site endorsed by the Exclusive Brethren. The broker, whom RNZ has agreed not to name, said while they were not doing anything illegal, he was uncomfortable with the way in which the church treated former members in particular. This week, former teachers at Brethren-run schools claimed the schools heavily censored reading material, ripping out chapters on reproduction from science texts, and dictated every aspect of the children's lives. We address doctrines and practices of Christian churches and organizations, as well as those of cults of Christianity. This leader is given titles such as The Man of God or The Elect Vessel. They keep themselves apart because they believe that "it is impossible for God to fully bless and use his children who are in compromise or complicity with evil". While Open Brethren tolerate autonomy in individual congregations, Exclusive Brethren do not. The awful, incomprehensible reality of being true to yourself is that sometimes it means hurting those you love most dearly. From that moment it's as though you've died, and all public traces of your existence are scrubbed from the record. Rob McLean said he believed making money should not be the primary goal of an organisation calling itself a church. There'll be a dinner and dance, a "mystery day" and lots of socialising - "certainly not religious, just a fun weekend". Picture / Doug Sherring, Dargaville couldn't be further from the Beehive, where revelations of Exclusive Brethren political lobbying and espionage are fuelling Parliament's running dog-fight. These days I'm back at TV3, working as a producer on The AM Show. NZ POLICE Russell Stewart,. If our kids were to see my husband's parents in the street, they'd say 'Hello', and 30 seconds later it would be 'I best be on my way'." I'd sit with one or two of these so-called priests, and launch into a tearful drunken confession as they plied me with whisky. Transcript Includes the following: Exclusive Brethren news tracker & news archive. Here is how the money-go-round works: large New Zealand retail businesses get guaranteed customers (the Brethren who are directed to purchase their goods and services) in return for rebates, which go to UBT. Exclusive Brethren Information provided by Reachout Trust, a Christian apologetics and countercult organization The Exclusive Brethren Excellent overview by the BBC. Across the Tasman, we've seen exposes of strong Exclusive Brethren financial backing in John Howard's re-election and allegations of past money-smuggling and child sexual abuse cover-ups. While putting heavy restrictions on the movements members, the leaders engage in dirty tricks campaigns. We had virtually no contact with people outside the Exclusive Brethren, and there were rules for every part of our lives. I've been chased, tear-gassed, and had a few close calls with petrol bombs. The Stewards Trust and Stewards Foundation are two separate, but closely related, organizations with identical membership. They're allowed to talk to us now," says Adrian. Some post-1959 ministry had already been included, and this practice will be continued. [7] Unlike Darby, he did not believe in maintaining insularity from non-Brethren Christians, and preached in churches of many denominations. "They apologised for the way they'd been treating us. A strong family-centred way of life ensures a further cocoon from the world. I think they expected we'd go back and were surprised when we didn't. It is timeous now for the many schismatic groups of Exlusive Brethren to eschew their groupclaims to total rectitude, to leave past divisions behind as the works of the EVIL ONE and to grasp that thay are one in CHRIST JESUS and authority rests in SOLA SCRIPTURA. The Exclusive Brethren - now rebranded the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church - says it does not own, operate or hold any commercial business interests itself, but members run their own "family businesses". What later became the GPH Society Limited originated in May 1900 when Edward Whitehead opened the Bible and Tract Depot at Palmerston North,[27] with the purpose of publishing Christian literature to serve primarily the Brethren movement in New Zealand, but also the wider Christian community in both New Zealand and Australia. But there were no "worldly" friends over to play, no going to the worldly kids' parties, no overnight school camps, no inter-school sports. Our mission is to educate the media and help those who have left and those who wish to leave a vicious regime that is causing increasing concern world-wide. We urge you to wait. This week the New Zealand Presbyterian Church voted to ban anyone in a sexual relationship outside marriage from its leadership roles (though 35 per cent voted against the ban). "These guys needtheirfamiliesto support him. Dargaville also has a well-established Brethren community with a big business presence. Life as an Exclusive Brethren had its good sides. My family ties stretched back nearly 200 years to when the Plymouth Brethren sect was founded in Dublin in the 1820s. Later, while working as a senior reporter for Stuff, I explored issues such as prisoner mistreatment, cannabis reform, and just where all the forks were going from our newsroom kitchen. Bruce Hales' father John, and his brother ran a "commercial system" between 1960 and 1965, which gave them control of Brethren businesses. [8], The slow pace of communication between the British Isles and the far-flung colony of New Zealand allowed Deck to operate more or less independently. 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